“After meeting three psychologists, you’re the only one who gave me a ‘slap’ to wake me up.” That’s what one of our clients told me after I asked her a shocking question during one of our sessions. The client in question was discussing her recent tendency towards unsuccessful intimate relationships when I asked her: “Do you love yourself?” Rather than talking about others and focusing on their actions, I opened her eyes to what was wrong with her self-esteem. A year later, she’s back with a very positive assessment, and not the least. I’ll let you judge for yourself… A year later I’m back in your inbox, with a very positive review. In May/June 2021, I moved to Orlando for work and also took over my boss’s duties during his paternity leave. Following this assignment, I was flagged “high-potential” within the company and applied for another type of in-house position, which I got and started in September. In October, I was finally able to buy the condo I’d been waiting 3 years for, almost to the penny. It appeared as if by magic and the whole transaction went perfectly. A real godsend. In December, my new boss asked me to replace him for at least 4 months while he took on an assignment to work on another important project. I also had a “test of the universe” about my emotions. Same as last year, a car rental company overcharged me. This time, for one day of rental too many. Last year, I had literally let my anger explode way beyond context, and it had made me question myself. This year, I picked up the phone, calmly explained the situation, and the person reimbursed me without question. It’s night and day compared to last year. All this (increasing professional responsibilities, buying a condo, solving problems, assertiveness, etc.) is made possible by my completely changed emotional management. It’s changing my life. Slowly but surely, another reality is taking shape. I don’t know what the future holds, but I’m sure that things are going in the right direction now. I can’t thank you enough for the time you’ve given me, which has really helped me to move on to another level in my life. Have a nice Sunday! Caroline
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